I have finally decided…..I HATE HAVING A P.O. BOX IN PACIFIC GROVE!
Yes Nate, this is the moment you have been waiting for. Once again, after a few years of nagging, I have realized that you were right and I was wrong. Going to get my mail is a waste of my time, especially when it can be delivered to my door.
For the last six years I have had a P.O. Box in Pacific Grove. The only problem with this statement is that I don’t live in Pacific Grove I live in Monterey (I am probably going to get busted by the post office police for saying that). I opened my P.O. Box when I moved back from Belize. For the first few months I was staying at different friends houses and I decided to open a P.O. Box so that no matter where I moved to my mailing address would not change. At the time I opened my P.O. Box I was living in Pebble Beach so I qualified to open a P.O. Box in Pacific Grove. I moved seven different times in two years so I was excited that I never had to change my mailing address. It is such a pain to have to change your address every time you move, especially when you move as much as I do. Four of the seven moves that I made were in PG so it was always easy to check my mail because it was never out of the way. Even when I did not live on Monterey I did not work that far from the post office so I kept it. I also never felt like I was going to be in open place for all that long. When I moved to downtown Monterey, about four years ago, I was tempted to close my P.O. Box but I didn’t want to lose the PG address, and I also did mot want to share one mail box with four people.
I have now lived in Monterey for about four years and I drive to PG once a week to get my mail. It really has never been that bad. I look at it as a little piece of the past and a type of “security blanket.” I love PG and there are many perks about having a PG address. One of them is that I get all kinds of information, schedules and discounts to all the local fairs, parades, and festivals. It is also a small post office and it kind of reminds me of the show Cheers. The same people have been working there since the beginning and they know who I am.
After this last week my opinion has changed. It started on Saturday when I went to get my mail and I received two cards that were postmarked October 2008. Each card had a red stamp on it saying “Left in Empty Bin.” What does that mean? One of the cards was a thank you card and the other was an invitation for a baby shower that happened four months ago. Stupid!!!! Then yesterday, Monday, I had the craziest experience. I went to the bank and Blockbusters and decided to check the mail. First of all I could not find a parking spot. They had the normal Monday Farmers Market traffic but they were also filming a commercial at “The Red House.” They had two blocks barricaded off with about 20 different types of trucks and trailers. There were tons of cops and people everywhere. The thing that got me was when I was walking out of the post office and was getting ready to cross the street to my car the director screamed action and the cops made everyone every car stand still. Why I have no clue. I was not even near the the place they were filming. Why I needed to stand on the corner for five minutes for no reason was completely stupid. Checking my mail, which would normally take me five minutes max took me about twenty minutes yesterday. It was ridiculous! Then today I hear from a friend that she sent me a wedding invitation, her wedding is next week, and I never received it. My mail is getting lost in some “empty bin.” So frustrating!
That is why today I am proud to say that I will be cancelling my P.O. Box at the end of March, when my six month lease is up. It is going to be hard to let go of my one foot in PG but I think I am ready.
THANKS NATE! You always know best!
Here are a few photos of the craziness in PG yesterday.